Are you a confident person?
Are you sure?
Truly confident in yourself and your abilities? In any situation?
Most people want to be confident.
But a very low % of people are actually confident. I’m confident.
Here’s 8 ways I acquired that magical elixir.
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1 Make yourself uncomfortable
Complacency is slow death
Attempt new things and fail
Know that every experience improves you, especially failure
New experiences create new neural pathways
Do more; know more; get more comfortable in any situation
Be diverse; never stop learning
2 GTF out of your own head
Banish “I can’t” from your vocabulary
Stop talking yourself out of things; Talk yourself into success
Oh hell yes you can.
An accomplished woman I dated after my divorce said: “the sexiest words a man can say are: I got this.”
Go talk to that girl. Now.